THE SECRET OF POSITIVE THINKING
Samantha Green, 42, Florida
One day I was shopping, and the seller who was in the store was busy with his iPhone. I saw him. This makes me upset, and so I reacted and exclaimed: "You know it is just unbelievable."
This made the guy alert, and he gave me a questioning look. That was the moment where I had to decide whether to take the situation to either go in a positive direction or a negative one. It took me a moment to decide.
I said, "It's just unbelievable; you have the amazing ability to provide the great services to people and also to continue browsing your phone.” What happened next was unbelievable, the guy smiled and gave me an excellent service too and most of all he wished me a wonderful day.
If we look around us, we are continuously interpreting the events that are happening around us. And through this interpretation, we give value to the product and thus correspond to our emotions as well. The interpretation is the thing that allows us to either feel positive or negative. If the interpretation is contrary, we will also see its effects.
Therefore, it is much easier for the UNOs to forget the changeability of interpretation as it is changeable.
So, I have adopted this habit to remain calm and try to look at things differently and in positive ways, even if the situation is extremely annoying. I always try to stay positive and try to put myself in other,s shoes.
Life has taught me the importance of having positive energy and allows me to see the positivities in every coming beautiful day, instead of having any negative energy-draining thought.
Life has also taught me that negative thoughts can bring multiple harms to my personality and mind, whereas the positive, healthy vibes can make me even more beautiful and energetic.